Contemplation: May 01, 2019: The Art of Patience
The Art of Patience
What cannot be achieved with pressure can
easily be achieved with patience.
Patience gives you the time to chip away at
your dream and turn it into a reality. It tells you not to push, not to
rush; there is a reason and a season for everything.
And when things go wrong, patience tempers the feeling of failure and buffers the heart. It teaches you to keep your cool. A cool head knows when to wait and when to act.
Sweetness
Although there
is an understanding of the need for being sweet in words
and interactions, many times we find ourselves being rude to people.
Although we try a lot to be nice and sweet (we are successful a few
times too!) yet we are not able to sustain this all the time. There is
some kind of negativity directly or indirectly expressed through our
words and actions. This further creates negativity in our minds. When
we are able to keep our mind sweet, i.e., free from any kind of
bitterness or ill-feelings, we are able to experience the beauty of
life. There is no feeling of sorrow or negativity but the mind is
nurtured to further positivity with everything that comes our way. So
we are further open to all that is nice and beautiful and we express
our own freshness and beauty in interactions. We are then able to
experience constant growth and progress.
and interactions, many times we find ourselves being rude to people.
Although we try a lot to be nice and sweet (we are successful a few
times too!) yet we are not able to sustain this all the time. There is
some kind of negativity directly or indirectly expressed through our
words and actions. This further creates negativity in our minds. When
we are able to keep our mind sweet, i.e., free from any kind of
bitterness or ill-feelings, we are able to experience the beauty of
life. There is no feeling of sorrow or negativity but the mind is
nurtured to further positivity with everything that comes our way. So
we are further open to all that is nice and beautiful and we express
our own freshness and beauty in interactions. We are then able to
experience constant growth and progress.
The
Internal And External Source Of Spiritual Energy
Every day, in the morning, we all need to recharge our spiritual battery, the energy of which has been used the previous day. This is extremely important, otherwise the light of our consciousness becomes dim, thoughts become unfocused and decisions are filled with un-clarity and doubt. This energy is available inside and outside. Inside us we have a spiritual centre, at the center of our consciousness, pure spiritual energy. This is what we are. However access to this energy is now blocked by our attachments, many negative life experiences and many incorrect beliefs and perceptions (way of looking at situations). Outside us we have the Supreme Soul, the source, the Supreme Being or Supreme Spiritual Energy. Both these sources are invisible to our physical eyes but only one second away when we are able to quieten and focus our mind on them. The method of doing this is called meditation, which connects us to both sources of power - that's why meditation is the way to spiritually nourish the soul, the nourishment that the soul longs for immensely. Sit quietly and connect your mind to each source and allow yourself to recharge.
Soul Sustenance
Defining Success
Given below are some definitions of success:
• Feeling yourself to be full of inner contentment and happiness, with an optimistic mental state, without fear, happy and in a good mood. Being fine, in balance and at peace with oneself.
• Finding meaning in what you do.
• Discovering what will bring you closer to your dream.
• Success is about more than just possessing; it is facing all situations, even the negative ones, transforming them into the positive and feeling yourself realized, personally and emotionally.
• Having courage to take forward what you want, in spite of what you find against it.
• Achieving in each moment the desired objectives at all levels of the inner being. Fulfilling set objectives and adopting a positive attitude.
• Being able to be beyond noise i.e. experience silence wherever and whenever you wish to – silence being the key to all spiritual treasures.
• Remaining humble in the wake of all achievements and glory that may come your way.
• Not being afraid of failure.
• Satisfaction at work.
• In harmony with one’s inner conscience (while performing all actions).
Given below are some definitions of success:
• Feeling yourself to be full of inner contentment and happiness, with an optimistic mental state, without fear, happy and in a good mood. Being fine, in balance and at peace with oneself.
• Finding meaning in what you do.
• Discovering what will bring you closer to your dream.
• Success is about more than just possessing; it is facing all situations, even the negative ones, transforming them into the positive and feeling yourself realized, personally and emotionally.
• Having courage to take forward what you want, in spite of what you find against it.
• Achieving in each moment the desired objectives at all levels of the inner being. Fulfilling set objectives and adopting a positive attitude.
• Being able to be beyond noise i.e. experience silence wherever and whenever you wish to – silence being the key to all spiritual treasures.
• Remaining humble in the wake of all achievements and glory that may come your way.
• Not being afraid of failure.
• Satisfaction at work.
• In harmony with one’s inner conscience (while performing all actions).
Tomorrow we shall discuss some factors that bring us closer to success.
Message for the day
To be a giver is to be flexible.
Expression: The one who does not expect from others, but is able to give others from whatever resources he has, is the one who is flexible. Being flexible means to be able to recognize the other person's value system and moulding one self according to it without losing touch with one's own value system.
Experience: When I am a giver, I do not expect others to change according to my value system, but am very easily able to find a way to adapt to the other person's value system. I never expect from others to understand me, but am able to understand others. So there is never any feeling of negativity for anyone.
In Spiritual Service,
Brahma Kumaris