Om Shanti
Om Shanti
कम बोलो, धीरे बोलो, मीठा बोलो            सोच के बोलो, समझ के बोलो, सत्य बोलो            स्वमान में रहो, सम्मान दो             निमित्त बनो, निर्मान बनो, निर्मल बोलो             निराकारी, निर्विकारी, निरहंकारी बनो      शुभ सोचो, शुभ बोलो, शुभ करो, शुभ संकल्प रखो          न दुःख दो , न दुःख लो          शुक्रिया बाबा शुक्रिया, आपका लाख लाख पद्मगुना शुक्रिया !!! 

Points to Churn from the Murli of June 05, 2013

 
Swamaan / Sankalp / Slogan: Swaroop Bano
June 05, 2013
हम सदा सदभावना वाली आत्माएँ , सेवा में असम्भव कार्य को सम्भव करनेवाली, विधि से सिद्धि पानेवाली, मेरे पन बिना समर्पण भाव से सेवा करनेवाली, सत्य, सच्च, साफ़, स्पष्ट, स्वीट, सर्विसेबुल, सर्वोत्तम सेवाधारी हैं…
By using the right methods to attain success, we, the souls, the truthful, honest, clear and clean-hearted, sweet, highly elevated serviceable servers, with purity and with total surrender, without the consciousness of “mine” in service, make the impossible tasks possible ....
Hum sada sadbhavna wali atmaayen , seva men asambhav kaarya ko sambhav karnewali, vidhi se siddhi paanewali, mere pan bina samarpan bhav se seva karnewali, saty, sachche, saaf, spasht sweet sarvisebul sarvottam sevadhaari hain ...
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Om Shanti Divine Angels!!!

Points to Churn from the Murli of June 05, 2013

Praise of Baba:

The Ocean of Knowledge, the Incorporeal Purifier, the Supreme Father, and the Supreme Soul Shiv Baba is.... My Baba...Sweet Baba...Lovely Baba...Kind-hearted Baba...Compassionate Baba...the True Father...the True Teacher...the Unlimited Father... the Almighty Authority...the Truth, the Living Being, the Blissful One and the Seed... the Bestower of Salvation... Knowledge-full...
Points of Self-Respect and Soul Study:
Blessing: While living with our lokik family and doing service as a trustee, we, the souls, never have arrogance with the consciousness of “mine”, but instead, swim by having the consciousness of yours, and remain constantly contented…
Slogan
By being generous hearted in service, by using the right methods to attain success, we, the big hearted souls, are the samples and examples of making the impossible tasks possible .... by having the awareness of shrimat in our intellect at every moment we surrender from our heart….we are the truthful, honest, clear and clean-hearted, sweet, highly elevated serviceable servers, the humble instruments who perform the task of world renewal with purity and with total surrender without the consciousness of “mine” in service, by having benevolent feelings, feelings of being loving and co-operative, feelings of increasing courage and enthusiasm, feelings of being soul conscious, and the feeling of belonging and good wishes constantly for all...With the blessings received in service we remain healthy and become free of obstacles by making a timetable to keep the mind and intellect busy in service...we fly and enable others to fly on the wings of zeal, enthusiasm, co-operation and courage...we are the tension free servers who pay attention to bring about the aim we have for ourselves in service a practical...We are the complete renunciates who surrender every breath, thought, word, action, relation, all people, material possession, sanskar, nature, attitude, vision and awareness, and use them in Godly service...By becoming free from bondages ourselves, and enabling others to become free from bondages, by being free from all burdens, we create our fortune with every thought, earn an income of multimillion at every step, and become multimillion times fortunate...With a matchstick of determination, we burn the Ravan of weaknesses and celebrate the true Dashehra...by becoming victorious over any trace of the five vices and any types of attraction of the five elements, that is, victorious over these ten aspects, we the master almighty authorities celebrate the true Vijay Dashami...
In the Milan of April 05, 2013, Bapdada said:
“Whatever weakness you have, you definitely have to renounce it. Is it firm that you have to renounce it? So whatever thought you have this season should not just be a thought, but you definitely have to do it. No matter what happens, you definitely have to change. Have this determined thought. Ultimately, you have to bring the time close.”
So, let us cremate our old sanskars. (Sanskar ka sanskar karo) Not just to suppress them, but to completely burn them, so there is no trace or progeny left. Check and change now. Have volcanic yoga ( Jwala swaroop) We have time until the next Milan in October . Let us work on one each day with the following

Yog Commentary:
cremate our old sanskars 50.......... pomp, to show off, to pretend. replace them by being simple, easy and light incognito effort-maker...I am a soul...I reside in the Incorporeal world...the land of peace...Shivalaya...I am with the Father...I am close to the Father...I am equal to the Father...I am sitting personally in front of the Father...safe...in the canopy of protection of the Father...I am the eight armed deity...a special deity...I am great and elevated...I, the soul am the master sun of knowledge...a master creator...master lord of death...master almighty authority... Shivshakti combined...immortal image...seated on an immortal throne...immovable, unshakable Angad, stable in one stage, in a constant stage, with full concentration....steady, tireless and a seed...the embodiment of power...the image of a destroyer...an embodiment of ornaments...the image of a bestower...the Shakti Army...the Shakti troop...an almighty authority...the spiritual rose...a blaze...a volcano...an embodiment of a blaze...a fiery blaze...I am cremating the sanskar of beingpompous, showing off and pretending..........I am burning them...I am turning them into ashes...I, the soul am a maharathi...a mahavir...I am the victorious spiritual soldier that is conquering the vice of .... being pompous, showing off and pretending......... by being simple, easy and light incognito effort-maker......I , the soul, am soul conscious, conscious of the soul, spiritually conscious, conscious of the Supreme Soul, have knowledge of the Supreme Soul, am fortunate for knowing the Supreme Soul.....I am full of all virtues, 16 celestial degrees full, completely vice less, the most elevated human being following the code of conduct, doubly non-violent, with double crown...I am the master of the world, seated on a throne, anointed with a tilak, seated on Baba’s heart throne, double light, belonging to the sun dynasty, a valiant warrior, an extremely powerful and an extremely strong wrestler with very strong arms...eight arms, eight powers, weapons and armaments, I am the Shakti merged in Shiv...
ॐ शान्ति दिव्य फरिश्ते !!!

विचार सागर मंथन: June 05, २०१३

बाबा की महिमा:
ज्ञान के सागर पतित पावन निराकार परमपिता परमात्मा शिव बाबा हैं...मेरा बाबा... मीठा बाबा...प्यारा बाबा...दयालु बाबा...कृपालु बाबा... सत बाप...सत टीचर...सत गुरु... बेहद का बाप...सर्वशक्तिमान...सत चित आनंद स्वरूप...बीजरूप...सदगति दाता... नॉलेजफुल...

स्वमान और आत्मा अभ्यास :
वरदान : हम आत्माएँ, लौकिक परिवार में रहते हुए ट्रस्टी की भावना रख सेवा करनेवाले, सेवा करते ज़रा भी मेरपन का अभिमान रखनेवाले, तेरा-तेरा कर स्वमान में रहकर तैरनेवाले, सदा संतुष्ट हैं
स्लोगन:
हम बड़ी दिल वाली आत्माएँ, सेवा में असंभव कार्य को संभव करनेवाली, विधि से सिद्धि पानेवाली, फ्राकदिल सैंपल और एक्साम्पल हैं ... सर्व के प्रति कल्याण की भावना, स्नेह-सहयोग देने की भावना, हिम्मत-उल्लास बढ़ाने की भावना, आत्मिक स्वरूप की भावना वा अपनेपन की भावना , सदा सदभावना वाले , मेरे पन बिना समर्पण भाव से सेवा करनेवाले, सत्य, सच्चे, साफ़, स्पष्ट स्वीट सर्विसेबुल सर्वोत्तम सेवाधारी हैं ... सेवा की दुआओं से तंदूरस्त बन, मन और बुद्धि को सेवा में बीज़ी रखने के लिए टाइम टेबल बनानेवाले, निर्विघ्न हैं... उमंग, उत्साह, सहयोग और साहस के पंख पर उड़ने और उड़ाने वाले, सेवा वा स्वयं के लक्ष्य को प्रैक्टिकल में लाने के लिए अटेन्शन से सेवा करनेवाले टेन्शन फ्री सेवाधारी हैं...
हम आत्माएँ, ब्राह्मण जीवन के हर श्वास, संकल्प, बोल, कर्म, सम्बंध, सर्व व्यक्ति, वैभव, संस्कार, स्वभाव, वृत्ति, दृष्टि, और स्मृति हर सेकण्ड समर्पण कर ईश्वरीय कार्य में लगानेवाले, सर्वस्य त्यागी हैं...स्वयं बन्धन-मुक्त बन अनेक आत्माओं को बन्धन-मुक्त करनेवाले, सर्व बोझों से मुक्त, हर संकल्प में भाग्य बनानेवाले, हर कदम में पद्मों की कमाई करनेवाले, पद्मा-पदम भाग्यशाली हैं... दृढ़ संकल्प की तीली से कमज़ोरियों के रावण को जलाकर दशहरा मनानेवाले, पाँच विकारों के वंश को भी और पाँच तत्वों के अनेक प्रकार के आकर्षणों की दस ही बातों पर विजयी बन, विजय दशमी मनानेवाले, मास्टर सर्वशक्तिमान हैं... बुद्धि में हर समय बाप और श्रीमत की स्मृति रखनेवाले, दिल से समर्पित हैं...
अप्रैल 5, 2013, के मिलन में बापदादा ने कहा था के :
जो भी कमी है उसको छोड़ना ही है | छोड़ना ही है, यह है पक्का? इस सीज़न में जो संकल्प कर रहे हो, वो संकल्प नहीं,पर करना ही है | कुछ भी हो जाए, बदलना ही है | यह दृढ़ संकल्प करो | आख़िर समय को समीप लाना है |”
तो ज्वाला मुखी अग्नि स्वरुप योग की शक्ति से संस्कारों का संस्कार करो ; सिर्फ मारना नहीं, लेकिन जलाकर नाम रूप ख़त्म कर दो....अक्तूबर पहले सारे अवगुण और पुराने संस्कार जला देना ...हररोज़ एक लेंगे और जला देंगे...
योग कोमेन्ट्री:..
५० .......... दिखावा, दंभ करना , ढोंग रचना ...... मैं आत्मा सहज सिम्पल सरल और गुप्त पुरुषार्थी हूँ .........
मैं आत्मा परमधाम शान्तिधाम शिवालय में हूँ ..... शिवबाबा के साथ हूँ ..... समीप हूँ .... समान हूँ ..... सम्मुख हूँ ..... सेफ हूँ ..... बाप की छत्रछाया में हूँ .....अष्ट इष्ट महान सर्व श्रेष्ठ हूँ ...... मैं आत्मा मास्टर ज्ञानसूर्य हूँ .... मास्टर रचयिता हूँ ..... मास्टर महाकाल हूँ ..... मास्टर सर्व शक्तिवान हूँ ..... शिव शक्ति कमबाइनड हूँ ..... अकालतक्खनशीनहूँ ....अकालमूर्त हूँ ..... अचल अडोल अंगद एकरस एकटिक एकाग्र स्थिरियम और बीजरूप हूँ ........ मैं आत्मा जागती ज्योत अथक निन्द्राजित कर्मयोगी धर्मात्मा महात्मा देवात्मा पुण्य आत्मा हूँ ........ शक्तिसेना हूँ ..... शक्तिदल हूँ ...... शक्तिआर्मी सर्वशक्तिमान हूँ ........ रुहे गुलाब .... जलतीज्वाला .... ज्वालामुखी .... ज्वालास्वरूप .... ज्वालाअग्नि हूँ .... मैं आत्मा..... दिखावा, दंभ करना , ढोंग रचना.....के संस्कार का अग्नि संस्कार कर रही हूँ .... जला रही हूँ ...... भस्म कर रही हूँ ...... मैं आत्मा मैं आत्मा सहज सिम्पल सरल और गुप्त पुरुषार्थी हूँ ........................... मैं आत्मा महारथी हनुमान महावीर विजयी रूहानी सेनानी हूँ ...... मैं आत्मा अवगुणों का भस्म करने वाली देही अभिमानी, आत्म-अभिमानी, रूहानी अभिमानी, परमात्म अभिमानी, परमात्मा ज्ञानी, परमात्म भाग्यवान ...... सर्वगुण सम्पन्न ....... सोले काला सम्पूर्ण ..... सम्पूर्ण निर्विकारी ..... मर्यादा पुरुशोत्तम ....... डबल अहिंसक हूँ ...... डबल ताजधारी विश्व का मालिक हूँ ....... ताजधारी तख्तधारी तिलकधारी दिलतख़्तनशीन डबललाइट सूर्यवंशी शूरवीर महाबली महाबलवान, बाहु बलि पहेलवान ..... अष्ट शक्तिधारी ..... अष्ट भुजाधारी ..... अस्त्र शस्त्रधारी ..... शक्तिमूर्त ...... संहारनीमूर्त..... अलंकारीमूर्त ...... कल्याणीमूर्त...... श्रुन्गारीमूर्त ..... अनुभवीमूर्तऔर लाइफ में सदा प्रेक्टिकलमूर्त शिवमइ शक्ति हूँ ..........


Om Shanti divya farishte !!!
Vichaar Sagar Manthan: June 05, 2013
Baba ki Mahima:
Gyan ke Sagar Patit Paavan Niraakaar Parampita Paramatma Shiv Baba hain...Mera Baba... Meetha Baba... Pyaara Baba...Dayalu Baba...Kripalu Baba... Sat Baap...Sat Tichar...Sat Guru... Behad ka Baap... Sarv shakti maan...Sat Chit Anand Swaroop...Beejroop...Sadgati Data... Nolej ful...
Swamaan aur Atma Abhyas :
Vardaan: Hum atmaayen, laukik parivaar men rahte hue trastee ki bhavna rakh seva karnewale, seva karte jara bhi merapan ka abhimaan n rakhnewale, tera-tera kar swamaan men rahkar tairnewale, sada santusht hain…
Slogan
Hum badi dil wali atmaayen, seva men asambhav kaarya ko sambhav karnewali, vidhi se siddhi paanewali, fraakdil saimpal aur exampal hain ... sarv ke prati kalyaan ki bhavna, sneh-sahyog dene ki bhavna, himmat-ullaas badhaane ki bhavna, atmic swaroop ki bhavna va apne pan ki bhavna , sada sadbhavna wale , mere pan bina samarpan bhav se seva karnewale, saty, sachche, saaf, spasht sweet sarvisebul sarvottam sevadhaari hain ... seva ki duaon se tandurast ban, man aur buddhi ko seva men bizi rakhne ke liye taaim tebal banaanewale, nirvighn hain... umang, utsah, sahyog aur saahas ke pankh par udne aur udaane wale, seva va swayam ke lakshy ko praiktikal men laane ke liye atenshan se seva karnewale tenshan free sevadhaari hain..., Brahman jeewan ke har shwaas, sankalp, bol, karm, sambandh, sarv vyakti, vaibhav, sanskaar, swabhav, vritti, drishti, aur smriti har sekand samarpan kar ishwariy kaary men lagaanewale, sarvasy tyaagi hain...swayam bandhan-mukt ban anek atmaaon ko bandhan-mukt karnewale, sarv bojhon se mukt, har sankalp men bhaagy banaanewale, har kadam men padmon ki kamaai karnewale, padma-padam bhaagyshaali hain... dridh sankalp ki tiilii se kamjoriyon ke ravan ko jalaalar dashara manaanewale, paanch vikaaron ke vansh ko bhi aur paanch tatvon ke anek prakaar ke aakarshanon ki das hi baaton par vijayi ban, vijay dashmi manaanewale, mastar sarv shaki maan hain...buddhi men har samay baap aur shrimat ki smriti rakh newale, dil se samarpeet hain…
Aprail 5, 2013 ke milan men bapdada ne kaha tha ke:
“Jo bhi kami hai usko chhodna hi hai. Chhodna hi hai, yah hai pakka? Is sizan men jo sankalp kar rahe ho, vo sankalp nahin,par karna hi hai . Kuch bhi ho jaaye, badalna hi hai. Yah dridh sankalp karo. Aakhir samay ko sameep lana hai.”
To jwala mukhi agni swaroop yog ki shakti se sanskaaron ka sanskaar karo; sirf maarna nahin, lekin jalaakar naam roop khatm kar do...aktoobar pahle saare avgun aur puraane sanskar jala dena...haroz ek lenge aur jala denge...
Yog Kometry:
Poorane va avguno ka agni sanskar...50.........dikhaava, dambh karna....badalkar.... mai atma sahaj, simpal saral aur gupt purushaarthi hun... mai atma paramdham shantidham, shivalay men hun...shivbaba ke saath hun...sameep hun...samaan hun...sammukh hun...safe hun...baap ki chhatra chaaya men hun...asht, isht, mahaan sarv shreshth hun...mai atma master gyan surya hun...master rachyita hun...master mahakaal hun...master sarv shakti vaan hun...shiv shakti combined hun...akaal takht nasheen hun...akaal moort hun...achal adol angad ekras ektik ekagr sthiriom athak aur beej roop hun...shaktimoort hun...sanharinimoort hun...alankarimoort hun...kalyani moort hun...shakti sena hun...shakti dal hun...sarvshaktimaan hun...roohe gulab...jalti jwala...jwala mukhi...jwala swaroop...jwala agni hun...dikhaava, dambh karna.......avguno ka asuri sanskar kar rahi hun...jala rahi hun..bhasm kar rahi hun...mai atma, maharathi mahavir dikhaava, dambh karna.......ke mayavi sanskar par vijayi ruhani senani hun...mai atma mai atma sahaj, simpal saral aur gupt purushaarthi hun......mai dehi abhimaani...atm abhimaani...ruhani abhimaani...Parmatm abhimaani...parmatm gyaani...parmatm bhagyvaan...sarvagunn sampann...sola kala sampoorn...sampoorn nirvikari...maryada purushottam...double ahinsak hun...double tajdhaari vishv ka malik hun...mai atma taj dhaari...takht dhaari...tilak dhaari...diltakhtnasheen...double light...soorya vanshi shoorvir...mahabali mahabalwaan...bahubali pahalwaan...asht bhujaadhaari...asht shakti dhaari...astr shastr dhaari shivmai shakti hun...
In the daily murlis, Bapdada gives vardaan to the entire Brahmin family spread all over the world. Baba also remarked in the murli, dated 7-1-2012 that serviceable children will make cartoons after listening to the murli. Visualization makes remembrance of the blessing throughout the day easier and thus makes it more fruitful.
05-06-2013:
Essence:Sweet children, continue to invent new methods for service. Become the Father's complete helpers in making Bharat into the deity self-sovereignty.

Question: Which hope does the Father have in you by reminding you of one thing in particular?

Answer: Baba reminds you: Children, you have become conquerors of Maya and conquerors of the world every cycle. You gained the throne of the mother and father and this is why you must now not be afraid of the storms of Maya. Never be influenced by Maya and thereby defame the name of the clan. Beloved children, maintain the honour of this old father’s beard. Don't perform any such actions that would defame the name of the father. Chase away the vices with the power of yoga and become incorporeal and egoless, the same as the Father.
Song: Dar pe aaye hai kasam le... दर पे आये हैं कसम ले ... I have come to your doorstep having taken an oath...
Blessing:May you be a constantly contented soul who renounces the consciousness of “mine” and does service as a trustee.

While living with your lokik family and doing service, always remember that you are a trustee, a server. When there isn’t the slightest consciousness of “mine”while doing service, you will then remain content. When you have the consciousness of “’mine” you become distressed. You think, “My child is doing this”, and so where there is the consciousness of “mine”, you become distressed and where you say “Yours”, you begin to swim. To say “Yours” means to maintain your self-respect. To say “mine” means to have arrogance.

Slogan: Let there be the awareness of shrimat in your intellect at every moment for only then would you be said to be a soul who has surrendered from your heart.
05-06-2013:

मुरली सार:-''मीठे बच्चे-सर्विस की नई-नई युक्तियाँ निकालते रहो। भारत को दैवी स्वराज्य बनाने में बाप का पूरा-पूरा मददगार बनो''

प्रश्न:- बाप बच्चों को कौन-सी स्मृति दिलाकर एक आश रखते हैं?

उत्तर:-बाबा स्मृति दिलाते-बच्चे, तुम कल्प-कल्प मायाजीत जगतजीत बने हो। तुमने मात-पिता के तख्त पर जीत पाई है इसलिए अभी तुम्हें माया के तूफानों से डरना नहीं है। कभी भी माया के वश होकर कुल कलंकित नहीं बनना है। लाडले बच्चे, इस बूढ़े बाप की दाढ़ी की लाज रखना। ऐसा कोई काम हो जो बाप का नाम बदनाम हो जाये। तुम योग बल से विकारों को भगाते रहो, बाप समान निराकारी, निरहंकारी बनो।

गीत:-दर पर आये हैं कसम ले के...

धारणा के लिए मुख्य सार:-
1)
हरेक के पुरुषार्थ को साक्षी हो देखते, स्वयं 8 घण्टे तक बाप की याद में रहने का अभ्यास करना है।
2)
बाप समान रूप बसन्त बन विचार सागर मंथन कर ज्ञान दान देना है। अन्धों की लाठी बनना है। वरदान:-मेरे पन को छोड़ ट्रस्टी बन सेवा करने वाले सदा सन्तुष्ट आत्मा भव लौकिक परिवार में रहते, सेवा करते सदा याद रहे कि मैं ट्रस्टी हूँ, सेवाधारी हूँ। सेवा करते जरा भी मेरापन हो तब सन्तुष्ट रहेंगे। जब मेरापन आता है तब तंग होते हो, सोचते हो मेरा बच्चा ऐसे करता है... तो जहाँ मेरापन है वहाँ तंग होते और जहाँ तेरा-तेरा आया वहाँ तैरने लगेंगे। तेरा-तेरा कहना माना स्वमान में रहना, मेरा-मेरा कहना माना अभिमान में आना।

स्लोगन:-बुद्धि में हर समय बाप और श्रीमत की स्मृति हो तब कहेंगे दिल से समर्पित आत्मा।

Daily Positive Thoughts: June 05, 2013: Every Thought Counts

Daily Positive Thoughts: June 05, 2013: Every Thought Counts

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Every Thought Counts

When you build a house every brick counts. When you build a character every thought counts. You are what you think. Love, purity, peace, wisdom - the more you think of these qualities, the more you will become them.
When someone brings their opinions and beliefs to a conversation, armed and ready for battle, it's easy to disarm them.

All you have to say is, "That's an interesting way to see it. Not sure I agree, but I can see what you mean." You can do this without anxiety because you're genuinely seeking to understand the other person's point of view.
Hearing The Voice Of Inner Wisdom Clearly

In a way we already know all that we need to know and all that is required to bring about transformation in the self - after all originally, we were a perfect being, and the experience of that stage as well as the knowledge of the path to reach back to that original, perfect stage is embedded inside us.Then why take up spirituality? Why can't we just listen to our intuition - the voice of inner wisdom? Listening to our intuition would be great but unfortunately most of us are not able to hear the voice of our own inner wisdom, which lies submerged in the sub-conscious because the noise of our thoughts, feelings and attitudes drowns the voice out. We have been gathering, slowly and steadily, thousands of beliefs since we have been a part of the cycle of birth and rebirth and these beliefs, in turn, create a flood of incorrect and unwanted thoughts and feelings, today, which distort the true inner voice so that when we think our intuition is telling us something that is true, it is really a wrong belief that we learned sometime in the past.

Over a period of time, as the soul gets purified through the practice of meditation and as it starts listening to and understanding true spiritual knowledge, false beliefs based on body consciousness get displaced by true ones based on spiritual consciousness and this inner voice starts speaking absolutely clearly and accurately without any wrong judgments or distortion. That is why, in the beginning, when we are still learning to connect with God, it is extremely important, to have the guidance of someone more experienced when learning meditation, who can guide us with his/her wisdom and experience, so that we can differentiate between what is actually our intuition and our own belief influenced viewpoint.
Soul Sustenance

Going Beyond False Identifications


The more I identify with the physical factors of my life, the more I become a prisoner to my destiny or the various up and downs of my life. E.g. if my self-respect is attached to my beautiful new car, how will I feel about myself when the car becomes old and its beauty and shine reduce? Or if I my car is stolen or gets immensely damaged in a road accident? Then, I shall find myself in an identity crisis. The same will be true if my business or job is everything to me. If one day, I am in a good financial state and I enjoy a very respectable and dominant position, and the next day I find myself in a dispute in my profession and I suddenly lose all of that, and nobody wants to know me, I will feel as if I have lost my soul and have almost died. The problem is sometimes so great that people do, literally, lose their desire to live. It happens, too, in relationships, when your partner leaves you either due to a separation, a divorce or even death - a partner in whom you have invested all your love and emotions. Or if my identity is tied to my back balance or property, and suddenly I am broke.

All of these are actually false identifications, and the crazy part of living this way is that I can never be satisfied, even if I succeed in maintaining my false identity. These kind of false identifications do not keep me placed stably on my seat of self-respect and either bring about an inferiority complex or a superiority complex - both of which are false, so both bring insecurity.Even while I am externally successful, having my identity based on that success means I am a slave to them. I've handed over my self-esteem to them. I become addicted to it.
Message for the day

There is victory for the person who opposes the weaknesses instead of the person.

Expression: Instead of trying to win over a person who displays any negative qualities, one needs to oppose the negativity itself. The one who knows the art of doing this will never do anything to encourage the weakness in the other person but will provide all help to finish it fully.

Experience: Since I am able to look at the weakness only and am trying to finish it, I will be free from negative feelings of dislike and hatred. There would be a genuine feeling of love, which in turn provides the right environment for the other person's growth.

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